May 18, 2012

  • Fashion Tip Friday ~

    Please, can I just complain today? Please?

    I want to complain about……
    the 2 inch hole that no one cut into the new role of paper towels I just opened.

    and

    the 29-31 glasses that have been being used in between dinner and morning each day this week.
    {I think I have a solution…I will share next week if it works!}

    and

    how on accident I wasn’t thinking and waaaaaay over tipped the girl who cut my hair.
    (As a former waitress from Chicago, I already tip BIG!  You Want Jeff and I to eat dinner at your table.)
    I’ll tell ya though…she was HaPpY! So I guess it’s ok.

    {and she made my hair straight for the day, but it feels weird because I’m so used to curls}

    continuing on with my complaining…..

    there has been cat piles in my herb garden, next to our wood pile, in my mulch, in my yard all week long!
    I am NOT a cat lover (sorry family and friends who love cats, but you already know me and know my ocd……=)
    and this makes me super, super, super, super, SUPER, SUPER MAD!!!

    and

    why can’t anyone remember to flush the toilet?

    and

    I was cranky and disappointed because I thought my new window was going to be put in today and now it’s not. =(

    and

    why do Rice Krispies behave like CEMENT if you don’t immediately wash them out of a bowl?

    and

    I also don’t feel very Fashion-y today and have No runway advice except
    Don’t eat the cookie before bed!
    You’ll be sorry in the morning when you get dressed and your favorite skirt is a little snug around the waist.

    and

    I don’t like my attitude, but I feel much better now that I got it all out and you quietly listened to me
    without talking back or interrupting or pouting. (at least I didn’t see or hear you!)

    How do they come up with this stuff???

    and you know what???
    Nothing of what I complained about here matters in eternity. and I have much to be thankful for.
    But sometimes, SOMETIMES, I just let it all get to me even though I shouldn’t.

    When my heart is right before God, I respond differently. I think differently. I don’t say things like….
    “I am Not Alice and you are not the Brady kids.” 
    I handle my crazy days in a much better frame of heart and mind.

    As moms, we need to be in constant prayer. We can’t parent or teach our children on our own.
    There is a battle going on, a battle we can’t see. A spiritual battle.

    And when we let our guard down, that is when the enemy attacks! and he attacks hard! and he attacks fast!
    and when I think of it that way, and I think of our family being under attack it gets me angry.
    A righteous anger. and I want to stand up to the enemy and shout…..

    “Stay Away!” But it’s my attitude, my heart that allows him in.
    We need to stick together as a family. We need to fight together.
    Constant prayer. Grace. Mercy. God’s word. It’s the only way we will make it through this life. =)

    Happy Friday everyone. Enjoy your weekend.

Comments (19)

  • These spiritual tips are the greatest beauty tips of all! 

    Try a bit of cayenne pepper sprinkled around the garden.  It won’t hurt the cat, but he will probably find your garden a bit too spicy anymore!

    Have a great weekend!

  • I’ve felt like whining this week too….funny enough mine started off when 2 too many inches came off my hair…. God is there for us & I told Him I feel like crap & I just want my Mom (she’s with Him btw). I’ve been gong through a  MD ordered heavy metal cleanse so what did I ‘hear’ in return.. go take your vitamins & herbs you’ll feel better & I like you no matter what you sound like when you whine. LOL I love that hint of humor in His ‘voice’. 

  • We had colored cups, one for each kid, and that was the one cup they could use. The same system worked in my high school dorm to keep glasses from accumulating.

    Fox urine might keep the cat away. You can buy it in cans. I don’t know where.

  • your hair is gorgeous! so full and thick…be thankful! which i’m sure you are :) i must say though, i am kind of partial to your beautiful curls!

    thanks for the reminder about the spiritual battle. too often i fight the physical battle instead and then, well, it’s just a mess!

  • Complain away sweet Liz. Tomorrow will be a better day. I am so thankful for do-overs.   :)

  • this is good stuff! i like the honesty, Liz!! i have 5 kids under 5 years for 2 days here- and it’s fun- but YES i hear you!!

  • Thanks for the honesty and the reminder! I haven’t prayed for my family today and boy do I have days where I know my attitude has given the enemy a foothold. Praying for them now!

  •             Love ya!!

  • You look so different but cute  as always, with your hair down and straight.
    Don’t know if you already do this or not but growing up we used the same glass all day and we always sat at the same place at the table so it would sit at our place when we weren’t using it.  It helps so much on the many many glasses to wash.
    I have realized that so much of our daily problems is when satan can get inside our thoughts and we believe what he has to say.  If we let me in, he can easily ruin a day just like that.

  • So maybe you didn’t give us a fashion tip, but you were keeping it real and you gave us tips for our inside beauty…the part that really matters anyway!  Blessings as you continue to fight in HIm.

  • a good venting must be done once in awhile ~ have a blessed weekend now ~

  • This is a great Fashion Tip Friday post….if you keep all of this in- no amount of accessories can cover up a person full of unspoken crud. LOL. ;)

    LIke the straight hair—but LOVE your curls! :)

  • I love your honesty and I share your dislike of cats!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dearest Liz,  I will listen anytime!  Amen! to the spiritual battle against our families.  Wear the full armor of God really hits me these days.   Your hair is always amazing.  Blessings, Cindy

  • This is late, I know, but this is a day when I needed to vent. I didn’t vent. I stifled, especially when my girl immediately thought (assumed) her dad and I were talking negatively about my parents. (That was NOT the case, and we told her so). I am ruffled up inside now because I know she can be the squeaky wheel in our marriage; her uber critical remarks are  disrespectful and are delivered with a very strong, pushy voice. I love her dearly and when she’s in Texas, I miss her. Now that she’s been around for a bit, she’s already  getting on my last nerve. I NEED PRAYER! The stress that I have right now is too much and I want to pack a bag and go away. Far.  But, I am a wife and mom, etc. They need me here. So I must get the armor on and prepare for the summer battle.  I love your hair. You are gorgeous, no matter what. Thanks for “listening”! I”ll listen to you ANYtime!

  • All I’m going to say is… I needed this. 

    Oh and one more thing, now that I live in Tokyo I see different fashions, but still fashions that are trending in the US. Stripes are huge right now (Esp. simple navy and white strips) and I’m wondering if you’d do a post on that (if you haven’t already). It seems like people are breaking all the rules and I’m wondering if I dare… because having wide hips I don’t do stripes but I’d love to! 

  • glad you were honest in admitting you’re not a cat lover!
    I’m not either, but to admit it is pretty risky business!!

    so agree with what you said in your last paragraph about letting the enemy in.
    it seems once he’s allowed into even just a small corner, the battle is raging before you even realize it!
    i belive negativity is one of the biggest ways he works!

  • what an excellent post. i hear ya girl. i hear you. and you know me…i listened quietly. :)

    just last night i was just talking *reminding myself* about this kind of “fashion tip and beauty advice” with sarah—our hearts before God. and our thoughts and feelings that precede our words and actions…our responsibility for sure! but not something that we can “do” without Him. thanks for your honesty liz…and for your perspective on our daily battles. Greater is HE…!!! 

  • I think it is OK to not ALWAYS have a great attitude.  Because sometimes things just DO make us upset and if we don’t acknowledge it, that has its own consequences too.  Anyway, thanks for sharing! Sometimes, life just kind of gets to you. And then you remind yourself of the truth and you get back on track.  And its all good!

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